Sarah Allen

I started off yesterday allright. i was gonna see sophie, there's no denying that. but then again i was going to see sarah allen too, someone ive been gaming for ages.

a little background about sarah allen:

she likes this gangsta dude named tobi, bf destroyed. anywho

i met her yesterday with emma goldsmith, we walked around lakeside and we had a lot of fun, i actually well like her, haha!

im considering asking her out soon. idk tho. !

hopefully before upload (Y)

Clubbing at New york New york

i cant remember much really.

I entered the club with ray kirsty and kate, everything was dull. the dancefloor was quite retro. looked fun.

i sat on the side with him, watched the dance floor. i got pissed off and danced right smack in the middle, some guy was dancing like an epileptic twat. he was doing some footwork so im like "oh okay" and did a dance off with him.

i ended it by gliding away with my hands pushed outwards. i was doing the "sorry mate, u aint good enough" thing. (looked at him up and down)

he came back for more, lol. just did the same thing.

anywho i came back to the group and asked them to pick a target. they picked a 2 set siting by a corner, i opened them

it ddnt go too well. they were overprotective and their bitchshields were wayyy high up. i managed to get their names, if that's any consolation:

its Amy and Hayley. ddnt nubmer close.

anywho, party kicked off. they were playing shit music. DJ sucked. then Drop was playing (fatman scoop) my god that was immense, was dancing with kirsty. then pump it up by joe buddens. wow. i danced like fuck.

then more boring crap.


More dancing boring crap. (grinded with kirsty marks a lot wooh)

ahh you know what, this aint even worth a FR.

at the end of the day, i just got on kirsty marks,and had an okay time. as for my PU goal, it ddnt go that well.

but ah well. who cares. least you opened a set mate.

The queens

dont think that i put my magic on halt, i still practice everyday!

Emma Goldsmith

jon will never be able to make people laugh like you can, your possibly one the funniest people around.
you make people happy. i mean ive met jon, but he never hooked me like you do, when i met you i was like ' man i have to find out more about this guy' because your different, your interesting, you intigue people.
you amaze people, ive seen it, you make so many people smile :)
we have establishe

That his hair is his best thing, he uses that to hid his face. your older and more experienced. I don’t think he could care/love sophie as much as you did, no one could J, she will realise that, you worked well. Your reliable, thoughtful, and I could trust you, with anything J
and tbh your damn lot sexier, you have the sexual attraction with the ladies. Your more confident than jon, which girls


, and also more popular

and you suit sophie more, than jon does, youse looked more suited and better together

-Emma goldsmith

Look on the bright side, she replaced you with someone shit. =D

The good news

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The bad news

i woke up thinking im doing the right thing by buying flowers for sophie's mum. i troulbed over the idea of what flowers to give her, lilies or white roses? i asked the florist (which was a nice hb 8) and she said lilies would be fine. we had a bit of fluffing going on and CnF, i actually quite enjoyed that. the flowers cost 6 quid.

anyways i made my way to sophie's house. i rang the bell, and as i got there, i stood and offered my flowers.

The bitch thought i was seeing sophie behind her back.

Yeah, Blatantly. she said she ddnt want non of my "creepy crawly" stuff.

Fuck you. this is what i get for being nice. i threw it away right in front of their house, hope she remembers that.

Dick.

i walked to stanford station, and i sat down, still fuming. sarah martin and cheeks were there, and we fluffed for a bit. cudnt be arsed to game. i arrived in tilbury town and took a train to taryn's. it was a laugh straight on after that. was harrassing "Mole" and going pervy on her magazines. i said to her that it was my goal to fuck one of the models on the magazine. also Watched Scary movie, Played on the wii.(my wii fitness age is 38 lol)

then we bought booze and started the Long ass'ed trek back to the train station

met up with lalah/Jade, then ray.

jade is my new target, if ever there is no chicks available i would have to settle for this HB 8. that is my goal. i semi gamed her earlier on but wasnt full on gaming her.

started the "10 minute" walk to my house. FLuff here and there


They invaded my room. Lol. which i found quite hillarious since jade (target) got a feel of what im like.


walked to afia's. and then its party on.

party like there's no tomorrow

Slept.



partied a bit

walked home.



Lol@ Sunil (my newest asian friend)

Casual Racism is funny.

lol

ahh, amazing night.

haha

Allright you needy fucking bastard

You've told her how you felt, NOW BACK THE FUCK OFF ALLRIGHT?

STOP TEXTING HER, STOP CALLING HER, STOP TEXTING HER, NO MSN, NO MYSPACE NOTHING!


unless she talks to you, otherwise keep everything fucking light hearted and stop going on bout your fucking emotions, you told her how you felt now shut the fuck up allright you stupid fucking motherfucker.

you've done what you want, now shut the fuck up!

On a Stand still

Operation Cloud is on a standstill, why? Due to External factors.

What factor is that sinful?

Sophie's Grandad has passed away now (God bless his soul) and your actions are on a stale, i have no idea whether to support her or not, or talk to her or whatever.

i will send flowers this saturday, when i head to coalhouse fort.

actually, that is pending if eden goes coalhouse, cause she's gay like that, and i dont really want a midget running around trying to rave.

Update:

I sent sophie a text earlier, she was quite allright. she said she has been crying, i asked what jon did, and she said he just hugged her and wouldnt let go. then stuart hugged her and jon sort of took her away.

Clingy bastard.

here is where my emotions lie: and i need to get rid of them

You care about sophie outen.

What do you actually want out of this situation?

I want sophie to love me again. Yeah. That's it.

That's what operation cloud's all about.

Now that you've asked how she is, stop ringing her, stop texting her, stop talking to her, only talk if she talks to you

REMEMBER OPERATION CLOUD. EXTERNAL FACTORS ARE ALREADY ELIMINATED!

Let her Reflect on how fucked up her life is without me. Let her reflect.


YOu can do this sinful, just step way back. Step back.


Edit:

i just sent her this text:

Its not the right time, but i did promise you that i'd tell you when ive stopped loving you. Still havent. thats why i still care so much about you.

I acted on instinct. I can do operation cloud any day, but this is me, Sinful being on the offense. Girls that are in an emotional state are the easiest to target.

Then again, that's how i feel anyways.

Operation Cloud

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Rough Day

i deleted her off myspace, then blocked her off msn.

i unblocked her off msn, and texted her today saying Goodmorning and have a nice day.


what in the fuck am i doing. i cant stop thinking bout her. does it matter if she thinks of you?

Really, does it actually matter?

YES IT FUCKING DOES.

but you cant do jack shit, jackass.

Conversation with emma:

Allright, for a whole month, this is what were going to do. Avoid all contact, except msn. msn is safe, and that's just to maintain friendship. AVoid all contact. Delete his myspace. Delete his number.

Say hi only if he says hi.

Emma: but he kinda messes with my head on msn too!

Ignore.

one worded answers.

"how has your day been?"

Fine.

"do you still like me?"

No.

Do not give him an idea that you still like him. it shifts power towards him, as he's the one in the relationship.

I know what to do now:

Im jay. and i live a fucking amazing life. my mum taught me to argue whenever possible. She wanted me to be a damn lawyer. everything is logical, and everything happens for a damn reason. Fuck right off if you say you cant do anything That's fucking bullshit- cause there's alwasy something you can do Stop bullshitting yourself by telling that you dont like him/her anymore

Cause we both know you do anyways. Dont bullshit yourself, but do remember that its not gonna work out
You're his/her Ex for a reason

AVoid contact. if he initiates contact, initiate one worded answers. if you see him in person, say hi. Only if he says hi first.

Avoid eye contact. avoid any contact at all.


Emma: what shall i do if he texts me?

one worded answers. if you do not have credit, DO NOT USE YOUR MUM'S PHONE TO TEXT HIM

what if he says ' do you wanna come lakeside with me?' he normanly says that


"am i black?"

Obviously not, so there you go.

he's having trouble, and needs someone to fall back on. picture that he's falling backwards, you dont want to be the person that catches him when he falls. instead you'd want to be the person that pulls him back up. after he falls down


AVOID ALL CONTACT. initiate one worded conversations.

STOP BEING FLIRTY
STOP BEING FRIENDLY
STOP FUCKING EVERYTHING ALLRIGHT?

cause right now you're in a state, where you cant get her off your mind. what in the fuck is that all about? she isnt your damn girlfriend, she's just your ex.

She's taken and happy. get that through your goddamn head. if she isnt happy, then good for her. she chose this path, dickhead. if she is, then good for her.

stop being a mum and keep implying the whole "i told you so." thing with her, cause women run on emotions and not on logic. whoever gives them that sexual vibe will win.


we are not going to initiate any sexuality until 5th of july. until the 5th

FUCING REMEMBER THAT. UNTIL THE 5th you are not to initiate any sexual contact.

"oh Sinful, why the 5th?"

Cause the 5th is upload, and it'll be sarging Olympics. i will use her as a pivot, and if it goes more than that, then Fine.


For now, dont relax. dont step back. actually step forward and take offense. i will not tolerate any bullshit that is sent to my way. Im Jay, and im fucking amazing. it doesnt matter whot he fuck you are, i dont take bullshit from anyone.

Boyfriend Destroyer- 2

Boyfriend Destroyers
by Harmless

First of all, it's important to notice how she brings up her BF:

If it's early in the sarge and she says, "I have a BF," this does NOT mean that it's time to do BF destroyers. This means that you did NOT attract her and that she could even be LYING to you because she doesn't want to talk to you. So... if you get this too soon, then you need to deal with more fundamental game issues first.

If she waits until later in the sarge and brings it up reluctantly, like, "Oh, I'm kinda seeing someone," then you know you're IN.


THE ULTIMATE BF DESTROYER:

Ignore it. Don't make an issue of it. The first time she brings up her BF, don't say anything more than, "That's cute." Just keep gaming her. You can break this rule later when you learn to calibrate.

If she brings it up again, there are a few techniques I have that work REALLY well to make take her BF out of her mind and put YOU in his place. (Well, at least make her forget about him for long enough to go home with you.)

They're all based on a few basic principles. Basically, you want to create a VOID in her life by letting her see that her BF is not fulfilling her needs. Then you show her that you are precisely her-void-shaped and fucking you would make everything alright.


Remember these principles:

First, if you BASH her boyfriend, she will get DEFENSIVE and support him. You've just anchored good feelings towards her BF and BAD feelings towards you. Bad idea. This even happens if SHE starts bashing her BF and you AGREE with her.

Second, if you try to convince her that you are better than her BF, the same thing will happen.

Third, if you talk about how awesome her BF is and exaggerate it to impossible proportions and talk about how they are destined to be together forever, this will cause her to re-evaluate her BF in YOUR TERMS... and be disappointed.

Fourth, if you talk about how horrible a BF YOU would be, and why she would never want to date you, she will start to relate that to HER experience with HER boyfriend. It's sometimes also effective if you do this ironically, telling her how WONDERFUL you would be and then describing all your horrible traits as if they were ideal.

Fifth, use future adventures projection to have her imagining the two of you together. Use this HEAVILY. I cannot stress this enough.

Sixth, fractionate between a joking, tongue-in-cheek, "I'm just kidding" tone and serious, "Is he kidding?" tone depending on how into you she is and how attached she still is to her BF.

Seventh, use false disqualifiers a LOT. Make excuses for why you can't be with her, especially ones that disqualify yourself. It helps if they are blatantly weak excuses. My favorite is that my other girls take up too much of my time as it is. Use these right after Future Adventures Projection too.

Eighth, just pretend that the words "I have a boyfriend" have NO MEANING at all to you. Continue as if she never said it.

Ninth, she is destined to be yours and you both know it. There is no element of NEEDINESS here.


Combine these principles (and others that I've forgotten, and anything IN10SE would care to add) and you can create your own BF Destroying material on the fly. Here are some routines that I've created while talking to girls:

(This is from a sarge with a SHB who is "kinda seeing" the manager of a trendy downtown club)

Me: "You're a lesbian, aren't you!"
Her: "I'm not a lesbian! But... er... I am kinda seeing someone. He's about this tall, dark hair [starts describing the manager, who I had seen her eating dinner with after the clubs closed the previous night]"
Me: "Well, it's a good thing that I like him."
Her: "Why?"
Me: "Well, because otherwise I'd just steal you from him, take you to a desert island, and spend a week drinking rum, sun-bathing, and skinny-dipping with you. [I could have gone on with the future adventures projection, but I decided not to.] But that will never happen. So, tell me, how long have you been 'kinda seeing' him?"
Her: "Oh, just a few weeks now."
Me: "Wow, you know, just from the way your eyes are all bright and your skin is glowing, I can tell that you are totally in love with this guy. In fact, I predict that a year from now, you will be happily married with 1.5 kids and a white picket fence." [said very tongue in cheek]
Her: "I don't want to get married, and I certainly don't want kids right now! I'm an independent woman!"
Me: "Of course you are. But he's just so perfect for you! I bet he buys you flowers every day you see him. I'm sure that he is always a perfect gentleman and never even LOOKS at another girl while the two of you are together." [note: I had been blatantly gaming girls all night, right in front of her, and getting #s.]

Other stuff to do and a general structure:

She mentions her BF and starts qualifying him somehow ("Oh, he's so X. I love him so much"). You use this when you start a FUTURE ADVENTURES PROJECTION:

"So I suppose that since I like him and I don't want to hurt his feelings and everything, we will have to conduct our moonlit tryst secretly. He must never know of our clandestine meetings."

Then you build up her BF with:

"You know what? It sounds like you guys are totally in love. I can totally tell that he's the PERFECT guy for you and you will ALWAYS be together. In fact, I bet he'll propose to you soon and you'll get married and have kids and live in a nice house with a white picket fence. And you know, I just couldn't live with myself if I ruined the rest of your life with him because he is your PERFECT BOYFRIEND."

Then she starts bashing her own boyfriend ("Well, sometimes he's mean to me. Blah blah blah") and you say,

"Well, if I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't be like that at all. I would call you three times a day JUST to find out where you were and what you were doing and who you were with. I would get mad if you didn't call me EVERY day because I would love you SOOOOO much. I would go out drinking with the guys every weekend so you could have your personal space to do whatever it is that girls do... I don't know, cooking and cleaning and such. Oh, and I would forget all our anniversaries and break up with you on valentines day."

So, the idea is:

She mentions the BF,

You ignore it.

She mentions him again,

You start three threads going:

One is future adventures projections of you and her having sex. But you use imagery that she can fantasize about (If you don't know, go read a romance novel) and disqualify yourself. ("Yeah, but that will never happen.") This raises buying temp.

The second is a thread that describes him as the ideal boyfriend so his faults are amplified. This is a DHV.

The third is a thread that describes you as a horrible boyfriend. You can do it ironically if you want. Basically, it's a DLV and a false-disqualifier.


In fact, these anti-BF techniques work so well that I use them all the time on girls that are single too. I just start talking about past relationships or the ideal guy, etc, etc. Or I start future adventures projections about our illicit meetings, running away from the paparazzi in LA, getting pictures of us kissing in the National Enquirer, etc, etc.

Hmm. odd

Well i started out allright today.

i asked hayley out at like half 12. i dumped her through text at half 3.

3 hours.

because my friends kept calling her russian and shit, lol quite kills my rep really.

I met up with Kristy laing afterwards, bloody fuck is she hot. HB 9.

I'd tap that ANY DAY.

gmaing that, applying the boyfriend destroyer technique.


Anyways, i gamed the xbox live operator as well, i found her quite intresting, though she prefered not to say where she was from or where she's currently stated. she said she was from egypt before though, and she was nice enough to send me 2 xbox 360 controllers and a wireless headset.


i was light gaming sophie as well, frickin hell i just cant forget bout that damn girl.

The Boyfriend Destroyer Technique.

THis was Posted by TheJedi, but originally written by Tyler Durden. I wanted a new thread for it so i could put it in the guide list.
By Tyler Durden

Thinking about my situation this week with my ex-GF, and how I will certainly
be doing some BFdestroying very soon, I thought that the bros. might be
interested in having a look at my potent and thoroughly field tested
BFdestroying techniques. (I'd better get some good replies on that email help I
asked for guys, its actually important to me). I want to add, that I see
nothing wrong in attempting to BFdestroy a relationship, because it can hardly
be a good relationship if some dude she just met was so easily able to break it
up. In the case of a marriage with young children, however, I might not be
inclined to use this stuff. Comments always welcome.
My potent BF Destroying routine, in all its evil glory:
I have used this for 5 years, and seen if work effectively for both myself and
for friends who ask me to BFdestroy on chicks that they want to get with. I
have seen this work on all forms of commitment (marriage, engaged, BF/GF, FB
that she's attached to).
This stuff is more geared towards prompting an actual breakup, than a ONS
(though its worked WELL for ONS also in -many- cases). I've read MrSEX4uNYC's
stuff on that, and its all you need. So if you're just trying to make yourself
sexually available to commited chicks who you sense want you anyway, this stuff
is hardly necessary. In that case, just do a ctrl-f search for "boyfriend" in
NYC's archive, and you're golden. For HBs in satisfying relationships (ie:
getting sexed well, getting emotional nurturing, guy is challenging yet fair)
that is your only option, as no amount of BFdestroying will do shit.
---
Background - a few things to remember:
1) When BFdestroying you walk a tightrope between evoking too many bad feelings
and having them anchoured to you, and getting the chick to want to dump her BF.
Don't forget that your end goal is to f-close, not to break her up for some
other dude to enjoy.
2) It is preferable that you don't make it appear that you want her to dump her
boyfriend. Rather, make the idea appear to be something from within her (more
of a Socratic thing, than a direct thing).
3) While BFdestroying, you must direct the convo. to make her prompt you to
tell her how you would treat a woman. Make her work it out of you, because
she's worked up, and wants to know if she's got a fair deal or not.
4) You must REFRAME all behaviour to appear like insecure nice guy behaviour.
Even behaviour that -WE- as ASFers would use on girls (such as not agreeing to
LTR) is to be REFRAMED as being nice guy behaviour, as someone who is too
afraid to be decisive and go for what they really want, since they are too
afraid that they will lose it once they've been emotionally vulnerable (as will
be explained below). All behaviour can be REFRAMED.
5) By making the guy look like a "NICE GUY", you are making him the most
sexually unappealing guy conceivable. Once you've done this, there is NOTHING
that he can do to get back into her good books, as you've put him into a
predicament where anything that he does will be interpreted by his GF as being
insecure. So, if he's too distant, and he makes up for it by buying her
flowers -> he's insecure. If he's too needy, and he makes up for it by getting
a life -> he's insecure. You are trying to DIFFUSE his outer glossy shell, and
give the girl a window into his inner workings, so that he no longer appears
"mysterious" in any way. You make her understand him so well, that she likes
him more as a person, but no longer has any sexual desire for him.
6) Rather than re-explaining EVing, I'll just quote some MrSEX4uNYC archive, to
give the basic frame that you're working with WHILE you are using the stuff
that I'm mentioning. Without using this at the same time, my shit is USELESS:
"A major point though is that if her relationship to her boyfriend was so good,
what is she doing sitting out for coffee with you? This does not need to be
stated by you. It is obvious. Your job is to find out what SHE wants from you
and how you plan to demonstrate that you can provide it to her through your
stories about yourself. Of course you need lots of stories about yourself
dealing with women in the same fashion that she likes to be handles herself.
This stuff seeps in and makes her think of you as "her type" without you even
complimenting her once." (MrSEX4uNYC)
The tactic:
What you're looking to do here is tear the guy down to a NICE GUY, while making
it look like you're actually STICKING UP FOR HIM! Your goal is to make him one
of those guys that a girl would go out on a date with, like as a person, and
feel bad for having to LJBF at the end of the night when he tries to kiss her
at the door.
So how do you do that? Almost invariably, LTRs have certain problems (which
any of you who've had LTRs are morbidly familiar with):
-jealousy related spats (KEY)
-neediness
-failure to commit or being too distant
-abusive behaviour (be it physical or mental)
-psychological withdrawal, to gain certainty in the relationship (ie: in LTRs
each party will withdraw to see if the other will pursue periodically, to
assure themselves that the LTR is solid.. this is dimestore psychology, and
easily observable in any relationship)
-being irresponsible (not holding up share of chores, etc.)
-not being assertive in bed (KEY)
-being into S&M and other stuff in bed, that the girl thinks is too far out
-getting angry/frustrated when he initiates sex, and girl is not in the mood
(KEY)
-being too predictable, not passionate


OK, there are some basic ones. I will now break these down to show you how I
would roughly respond to any of these complaints, in a way that I appear to be
sticking up for the BF, but am inadvertantly BFdestroying him. This is not the
sum total of the routine, but simply the raw fuel that you are employing, while
using standard ASF kino/bodylanguage/tonality etc. Remember, that you may not
necessarily want to start escalating your sexual state, until she is convinced
that her BF is lame-ass, otherwise she may potentially realize that you are
trying to pull one over on her. This is not the rule, but simply something to
be considered based on your evaluation of the circumstance.
Jealousy:
"You have to understand that this guy really appreciates you, because you're
probably the best girl that he ever got, or ever will get. I know that... you
care about this guy (maybe sp)... but there's just a certain equilibrium where
if you've done this guy a favour by being with him and he's not equipped to
handle it, since he knows that he'll never get a girl like you again if he
walks out, that he's just constantly frustrated and panicked that you'll leave.
It's not his fault.
Neediness:
"You've got to understand that for this guy you are his entire world. He cares
about you so much, that everything else in the world is meaningless to him.
You are his only source of pleasure, and without you he knows that...he's
nothing. You can't blame him, he just doesn't have anything else going for
him, so he needs you."
Failure to commit:
"It's not that this guy doesn't love you. He does. Its just that deep down he
has a fear that... you're too good for him... and that you'll realize it and be
like, you know....you just have to dump this guy.... and then he'll be left
emotionally destroyed because he made himself vulnerable. Yes yes I know that
you wouldn't do that to him, but its just that with (x,y,z into consideration -
bring up imbalance struck earlier in the convo) he knows that you could get
other guys (SP)...like me...I just think that he's not an emotionally secure
person, and you've gotta cut him some slack."
Abusive behaviour:
"It's not that this guy doesn't love you. Its that he loves you too much, and
just can't handle it. He's not emotionally available, and because he knows
that you're the best he's ever had, he can't handle all of these things that
he's going through emotionally. All his life he probably wasn't very good with
women, and women weren't interested in him.. So now that he's got this girl, he
doesn't know how to handle it. (plus use the he doesn't want to be emotionally
vulnerable, because he's such a loser ass that he can't handle it as per above
etc.)
Periodic Psychological Withdrawal:
"(use combinations from material I've written.. Rather than downplaying it for
the perfectly normal behaviour that it is, magnify it by making it appear to be
a sign of insecurity, that is typically displayed when nice guys who can't get
girls get stuck into a relationship with a girl that is too good for them)"
Being Irresponsible:
"Its not that this guy doesn't -want- to do these things. Its just that he's
so overwhelmed by all of the things that are going on, that he just can't keep
up these responsibilities. Yes yes, I know that x,y,z aren't that much, but
he's not in an emotionally healthy place right now, and he just can't handle it
(you mirror this against yourself, the image of a REAL/STRONG/COMPETENT man,
basically trying to make him seem like a little boy)"
Not being assertive in bed (THIS IS KEY, AND IS VERY OFTEN THE BEST ONE TO USE
- VERY COMMON)
"It's not that he doesn't want to excite you. It's just that he's so
overwhelmed being with a girl like you, that he's not equipped to handle your
sexual needs. It's like the typical case of the rich daughter who marries the
labourer. At first the labourer is so exstatic to have this gorgeous girl
(point to her) wanting him.. But in the end, he cheats on her with some white
trash mullet haired girl, because he knows that that's who he really belongs
with, and that's who makes him feel good about himself. You shouldn't hold his
lack of assertiveness in bed against him, because its just a reflection of his
insecurity. With the right girl, any guy can be a stud in the sack .. its not
hard, you just have to take CONTROL (perhaps show some controlling kino here,
to get her turned on)." then transition to some HOT sex talk, where you
inadvertantly spill how much you need to take control in bed.
Guy into weird stuff in bed (S&M etc) when she hates it:
"It's not that this guy doesn't love you.. Its just that he uses these things
to objectify you, because he knows that he's never had a girl like you, and
probably never will once you're gone.. so he doesn't want to "make love",
because he doesn't want to make himself emotionally vulnerable to you.. but he
still wants sex,
so he has to turn it into a perverse game, to keep his insecurities from
overwhelming him"
Guy gets angry when he initiates sex and she's not interested (ANOTHER KEY ONE
TO PECK AT.. VERY COMMON)
"The thing is, that this guy loves you, and he's just exasperated that.... he's
completely impotent to turn you on.. he just can't turn you on, and he knows
that, so he gets frustrated.. Its like when you want to have
sex...withme.....its like, I know that its your job to get the girl turned on.
Girls need a man who knows that they want, and how to get it. When a girl says
'no', but at the same time she loves this guy (sp), it often means please turn
me on more.. please, I want you to be more attentive to me.. (this totally
mindfucks the girl, as it is an EXTREMELY COMMON part of the LTR cycle, that
once sex becomes stagnant -> foreplay nearly ceases. Because chemically women
are addicted to OXITOCINS which are released by touch, and it is more
testosterone that they get from sex, most women will hate sex once it degrades
to a lack of foreplay. However, most LTRs have this problem, so you must
exploit it.. I'm ceasely amazed by how much girls in LTRs PERK RIGHT UP the
second that you imply that you're attentive even in LTRs)
Being too predictable, not passionate:
"Its not that this guy doesn't love you. He does. Its just that he's so
comfortable with you now.. and feels so close to you, that you're more like a
sister to him.. Like a special sister, but someone who he doesn't feel that he
has to do all these things for anymore, because your relationship is so secure
and so predictable.. there's no need for all that excitement, because he knows
that nothing will change.. Some guys deal with true love that way.. I dunno,
for me, I think that if you really love someone, you have to do x,y,z
(established earlier in convo) to keep it fresh. Like if you are really a real
man who loves his woman, you have to do x,y,z to keep it fresh. But really,
its not that he doesn't love you, its just that he loves you so much that he
doesn't see the need."
***So, remember that you are focusing on destroying the guy's sexual appeal, by
making him seem too familiar, and easy to understand. People generally get
'one-itis' for those who are challenging and hard to understand. By making the
BF seem both easy to understand, and very insecure/nice/beta in the meantime,
the relationship will likely not last the week.
Just remember not to be the LJBF who counsels her on her problems. Instead,
you are constantly getting her worked up by doing the EVing that MrSEX4uNYC
discusses in his archive. Ideally, she must be getting both turned off the guy
by what you're doing, and getting turned on by YOU, and the conversation
NATURALLY LEADS TO HOW YOU ARE DIFFERENT, AND -IDEAL- FOR WHAT SHE WANTS. The
natural flow of conversation must indirectly lead to exposing your highly
desirable qualities.
She is getting turned on by the DIRECT CONTRAST between you and her boyfriend.
You do not offer your qualities directly, but highlight them by pointing out
that you understand where her BFs negative qualities are insecure. Getting her
to beg you to tell her how you treat women is all the better, and if it is
going well can likely be expected. Act reluctant to tell her if necessary,
though not to the extent that you are sending an SOI that her getting with you
is not a program that you're down with.
Once you have her worked up, use standard ASF material to move in, and its a
done deal.

Impossible for a pickup?

Fuck right off.

this will be your new inspirational video.

currently reading the game by strauss as well

You'll be allright

' hi im jay and i have a amazing life, and if you dont like me, you can go get herpies from your mum :P'

dont let it get to you, your stronger than that :)

-Emma goldsmith

Why dont you take your own goddamn advice for once aye?

You'll be allright.

Just step back, and watch things unfold. =D

You're amazing, here's your girl list:

HEADCOUUUNTTTTTTTTT

Girls that wants to go out with me:

Amanda
Hayley (Potential Fuck buddy)
Hope

On a stale:
The lovely Ex girlfriend, Sophie outen.
Kirsty marks
Kirsty moore
Kristy laing
Shirly (college)
Amy (nutter amy)
Emma evil (theo's Girl)
Louisa (Psychology)
Ashleigh Corbin
Lucy (St.cleres lucy)


Gaming:
Paige (msn)
Sarah (goldsmith's friend)
Holly (hb 9 )
Amy anime
Sophie (Beautiful disaster)

Pivots:
Demi
Sexy Emo goth Jem
lalah (college)

Grading day

I'll give you a lowdown from yesterday:

Basically i was planning to give sophie a drink from starbucks and just talk to her- but something that fucked me off badly came up. Jon was wearing a wristband that i gave to sophie.

Like, Woooh. that pretty much fucked up my day really.

i was gaming for a bit- tom's bird named sophie and luke's bird named amy. MAJORLY light gaming.

i walked home as well. it was raining. i cried for a bit. why would sophie do that though? that wristband meant a lot, and why is that guy wearing it?

i called her up like 13 times, and we talked for the whole hour. she said its only because she swapped wristbands with him the day of her exam.

Long story short- she ddnt mean it intentionally.


i talked to her ages ago as well, about when we were having a break, and she just dragged me to the nearest corner and ate my face. then after she said "sorry i couldnt resist."

She said she would still do that now.

and i said its just wrong.

Looks like ive still got a leash on her. she's going to stuart's piss up thing today with people, she might get pissed, she might eat jon's face. apparantly if she can be bothered.

Lol.

Come on come on, its called a U-turn

Pay no attention to that title, its just the current song that's playing and i havent heard it in ages lol.

ive bene thinking bout sophie a lot recently-

what have i been doing exactly?

ive been pushing away from her since last week exactly. we havent had a full blown conversation that hasnt turned into an argument.

apparantly 2 days ago She said to barnaby that i kissed hope on our little spot.

wow, that mustv ehurt like fuck.

im gonna go apologise today. consequently, 2 days ago she was majorly upset and stuff she said she kept her promise when she said she'll love me forever.

im just gonna buy her a caramel frappuccino with blended creme to make up for it. or maybe some oreos as well. i'll tell her to shove it down jon's mouth.

Lol. i will actually say that. see her reaction. im tempted to faint kiss her- though i dont think it'll be appropriate.

my targets are gonna be all over the lake today- GREAT.


i dont know- im not gonna fall back into her arms or anything, but i at least want her to acknowledge the fact that i still care.

i think i went too far with the whole "pushing away" aspect of the cat string theory.

time for the pull. then i'll push away again by backing off.


anyways - meeting luke instead of rebecca- cause rebecca's grounded.

Still gaming holly

and on that note, im off. talk soon Sinn.

Damn it

Im sorry- but ive been really busy and shit recently, and like i havent really remembered to put entries and whatnot

i'll give you a quick lowdown:

Meeting rebecca tomorrow (HB 7, pivot really social proof) at the beginining, Gonna ask if i can borrow sophie tomorrow (Ex Gf, hb 9) and just apologise and stuff really bout the whole hope thing (hope= Hb 5 >_>)

HOPEFULLY

i will see HOlly as well, she's HB 9 and im seriously gonna try and game her like FUCK.

otherwise i'd just be roaming around

i might head into jame's barbeque as well.

amanda's getting fuck annoying. seriously.

oh and sophie?

Her and jon havent broken up, theyre awkward with each other apparantly, ive no idea.

Lol. just gaming girls for me, dunno wtf she's doing with her life.



Update from: http://sinful07.blogspot.com/2008/05/headcount-300508.html

HEADCOUUUNTTTTTTTTT

Girls that wants to go out with me:

Amanda
Hayley
Hope

On a stale:
The lovely Ex girlfriend, Sophie outen.
Kirsty marks
Kirsty moore
Kristy laing
Shirly (college)
Amy (nutter amy)
Emma evil (theo's Girl)
Louisa (Psychology)
Ashleigh Corbin
Lucy (St.cleres lucy)


Gaming:
Paige (msn)
Sarah (goldsmith's friend)
Holly (hb 9 )
Shirley (dying.... =/)

Pivots:
Demi
Sexy Emo goth Jem
lalah (college)


wow that's a tad bit lot.

Its been a few days

And im doing quite allright, gaming a SHIT lot of girls, so taking my mind off things.

here's a few quick updates:

there's a high possibility that sophie might be dumping jon. cause apparantly jon doesnt like her anyways.

-sophie's grandad is dying

yes i have been speaking to her, but i dont like reminisce or whatever, well we do but i do try and steer it back to the main point.

-Tom's doing okay with his sophie etc

amanda's being annoying, so is hope

hayley's actually allright lol.

Demi's not too good with steve, and likewise.
steve's in love with heidi, heidi's taken

went to play pool with myles, tom, daniel jono and ray today. quite fun but i sucked ass.

Still gaming a shit lotta girls, avent spoken to emma goldsmith's sarah all day- nor have i spoken to paige. spoken to kristy though and sophie.

Emmanuel can crip walk now.

And. the finale:

Eden lost her virginity.

in a tent.

HAHAHAHAHAHA